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Copyright © Robert Mark Shepherd 2005

 

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Suggested Ritual Design

Suggested Meeting Format

The Correspondences

Green Man Code

Recommended Reading List

Recovery Stones

Evaluation on an Individual Basis

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Start a Meeting

If there are no PSR meetings in your area, why not start one?

Meeting space is available in some open-minded churches (Unitarian would be a good place to start) and treatment centers. For a new group, initial startup responsibilities include finding a meeting space, handling contributions and rent, printing formats, putting together the habiliments (ritual candles, holders, etc), maintaining the coffee supply and machine, keeping a current phone list for members, and more.

If you want to start a meeting, thank you! The only way PSR can reach other recovering pagans is with your help.

 

You may also consider the following measures:

1) Posting flyers in the local new age/occult bookstores, bead shops, music stores

2) Submit a listing in the local entertainment/culture/alternative papers.

3) Find meeting space in a substance abuse facility, and ask to be listed in their meetings schedule.

4) Establish a presence at pagan events by volunteering to do a workshop on pagan recovery and/or getting a vending table to distribute information . If you explain the non-profit nature of PSR you may get a break on the table, or they may even waive the fee altogether. Asking is free.

 

Regardless of what program, whether using the PSR steps or another

please let us know about your meeting so we can list it on this site

 

Pagan Sanctum Recovery
P.O. Box 657
Tulsa, Oklahoma, 74101

 

For other vital meeting materials, see Downloads.


Suggested Ritual Design

To get in touch with the Gods and Goddesses of our choice, Pagan Sanctum Recovery has a simple ritual at the beginning of each meeting. Since PSR is first and foremost a recovery meeting, we allow free access throughout our allotted time. We do not cast a full circle, which would assume an understanding of the protocol of entering and leaving a sacred space that not all recoverees will have. We invite ritual design submissions, and encourage inclusion of all traditions.


PSR Ritual habiliments:

A large altar cloth, any color or design.

A candle snuffer

Lighter (or matches, as preferred)

Bell or chime (optional)


Candles (with adequate holders):

Deity (large white)
Inner Divine (small white)
God (white, with Gold holder)
Goddess (white, with Silver holder)
North (green)
South (red)
East (yellow)
West (blue)


In most recovery meetings, there is usually a circle of folding tables or similar furniture. The following is a suggested diagram of how to place the candles:





 

Suggested Meeting Format

RTF

 

I. Getting Ready

It’s a good idea to get in a half hour early to start coffee and set up the altar. Before the meeting, the Chair asks persons to:

1)prime candles (make sure they'll light)
2)give away recovery stones
3) read the steps
4) greet people at the door (if enough in attendance)

II. Call Meeting to Order and Preamble

Call the meeting by ringing the chime softly (or loudly, if needed) and begin:


Welcome to the ___________ Group of Pagan Sanctum Recovery.

My name is ____________ and I am an/a ___________ in recovery.

Pagan Sanctum Recovery is an independent, non-profit organization devoted to the healing of pagans and the pagan-aware. A desire to recover is the only requisite to join. Our mission is to protect, encourage and aid each other in our overall recovery from substance, behavioral, mental, and emotional disorders. PSR embraces pagan beliefs, vocabulary, and ideologies as it focuses on the continued spiritual and physical recovery of its members. We offer a spiritual alternative for today’s growing number of individuals embracing Goddess religions and other pre-Christian faiths, including Wicca, Witchcraft, Asatru, Odinism, Shamanism, Druidism, Native American paths, and many others. Buddhists and Hindus in recovery may also find something to relate to, as some of our spiritual concepts derive from these eastern religions.

According to our seventh tradition PSR funds its own meeting space, literature and supplies through its own contributions. As we pass the basket donate what you can, if you can.

Pagan Sanctum Recovery welcomes all who want to recover from an addiction or behavior disorder, regardless of beliefs, including newcomers, the questioning, and the curious. We help all who come to us in need, and humbly offer secular support to others in recovery, regardless of their religious, spiritual, or 12 Step program affiliation.

PSR is not meant to replace other 12-step programs, but to serve as a spiritual supplement for those needing to share their recovery-through-faith with others on similar paths. While we do not have to accept another's religious concepts as our own, we must respect them during the meeting.

Are there any recovery or pagan related announcements? (They need not be PSR specific)


III. Reciting the Green Man Code


For those who care to, let’s recite the Green Man Code.


The Green Man Code

We have a dark past,
but we also have a bright future.
Our survival depends on unity, love and trust.
As One, we defend ourselves against those
who would deny us our chosen path,
our chosen beliefs, and our chosen Deities.
We are each other's Green Man.
As One we represent our faith.
When anyone asks for help,
we will be there for them,
for we are all divine
creatures of
the universe.

 


IV. Calling the quarters, and requesting our Deities, Elementals, and Spirits to attend

For those who care to, join me in a moment of grounding and meditation as I welcome our Gods and Goddesses, Spirits and Elementals to our circle and meeting.

Remember that the deities we honor are personal, and appear to each of us individually as they will.

Chair calls the Quarters (or Quadrants, Cardinal Points, or Watchtowers, if you prefer) as assistant lights the candles:

North (Green Candle)

Hail, Guardians of the North, Spirits of Earth,
Come join us in our circle and meeting.
Bless us with success and prosperity as we grow in our recovery.

So mote it be.
(All repeat)

East (Yellow Candle)

Hail, Guardians of the East, Spirits of Air,
Come join us in our circle and meeting.
Bless us with wisdom and serenity as we grow in our recovery.

So mote it be.
(All repeat)

South (Red Candle)

Hail, Guardians of the South, Spirits of Fire,
Come join us in our circle and meeting.
Bless us with the freedom to change as we grow in our recovery.

So mote it be.
(All repeat)

West (Blue Candle)

Hail, Guardians of the West, Spirits of Water,
Come and join us in our circle and meeting.
Bless us with your healing powers as we grow in our recovery.

So mote it be.
(All repeat)


(Lighting the gold, then silver candle:)

God and Goddess, Lord and Lady,
Ever guarding, strong and steady,
Pagan King, Pagan Queen,
Be here as you would be seen,

All:
We strayed into a nameless dark
Without a soul, without a spark,
We find the path, we find the door
We feel the flowing power pour
By root and stem and mountain field
We seek the light, we will be healed

So mote it be

(Lighting small white inner divine candle,)

With love we light the living flame
Above we find our inner name,
Seeking oneness, seeking feeling,
Seeking vision, seeking healing

All:
We strayed into a nameless dark
Without a soul, without a spark,
We find the path, we find the door
We feel the flowing power pour
By root and stem and mountain field
We find the light, we’re almost healed

So mote it be


(Lighting the tall white Deity candle:)

Blessed life, Blessed love,
now below, now above,
with daily life we learn to cope,
and celebrate our life of hope.

All:
We strayed into a nameless dark
without a soul, without a spark,
we find the path, we find the door
we feel the flowing power pour
by root and stem and mountain field
We are the light, we have been healed

So mote it be

V. Reading the Thirteen Steps of Pagan Sanctum Recovery
I have asked ___________ to read the 13 Steps of PSR.

 

1) Realization

We realized that our spiritual, physical and mental disorders have totally defeated us, and that it is time to reclaim our lives.

 

2) Acknowledgement

We acknowledged that our combined disorders have been sustaining our illusions of control, and that through meditation, honest introspection and help from others we can overcome this barrier and rediscover our Inner Divine Power.

 

3) Recognition

We recognized that our disorders have severed the bond between our Inner and Outer Divine Powers, as we define them, impairing our ability to function, heal and live in peace and serenity.

 

4) Reunion

We abandoned our will to the reunion of our Divine Powers.

 

5) Surrender

We surrendered completely our body, mind and spirit to our Divine Union, seeking a new directing force for our lives.

6) Examination

We examined our character thoroughly and made a list of our attributes, both positive and negative.

 

7) Responsibility

We shared our examination with another person, accepting full responsibility for our actions, blaming none.

 

8) Invitation

With humility and respect we invited our Divine Union to remove our destructive traits.

 

9) Accountability

We made a list of all persons we have harmed, and accepted the need to make amends to them all.

 

10) Amends

We made direct amends to these persons when possible, unless this would cause harm or make a difficult situation worse.

 

11) Maintenance

We maintained our spiritual balance through daily character examination, and continued to make amends for our wrongs whenever necessary.

 

12) Connection

We reinforced the bond between our Inner and Outer Divine Powers through meditation, magick and ritual, and allowed this renewed connection to guide us in our daily living.

 

13) Continuation

As the direct result of our spiritual rebirth, we practiced these concepts on a daily basis. We continue the circle of healing by helping others in recovery, regardless of their spiritual beliefs. We keep it only by giving it away.

(While the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of Alcoholics Anonymous inspired the steps and traditions of Pagan Sanctum Recovery, they are not an adaptation. Rather, they were created specifically for this group, and should not be construed otherwise. A.A. is a program concerned only with recovery from alcoholism, and is not in any way affiliated with this group. A.A. kindly asked us to post this disclaimer).


VI. Giving out the Recovery Stones

Pagan Sanctum Recovery presents stones for various lengths of recovery time. Does anyone have multiple years to celebrate?

Ten years? (Rose quartz )

Five years? (Ocean Jasper)

18 Months? (Blue Tiger’s eye)

One year? (Snowflake Obsidian)

For remaining months, go to chart. Pass the stones around the group to charge with positive, healing group energy, and chant the following:


'Round the circle pass the stone
Now we see we're not alone,
From a beacon in the night,
A voice within our inner light,
Betwixt the worlds we find our way
With family's love we start our day

 

Time

Stone

Description

Attributes

10 years

Rose Quartz

Translucent pink quartz

For everlasting love, friendship and peace

5 years

Ocean Jasper

Green, white and mottled yellowish brown

For protection and healing

18 months

Blue Tiger’s Eye

Blue, with glimmering bands

Properties of Tiger’s Eye, with an emphasis on healing

13 months, or 1 PSR Year

Snowflake Obsidian

Black with whitish "snowflakes"

For establishing overall balance in one's life

12 months, or one year Gregorian

Goldstone

Rusty Brown with gold flecks

Spiritually uplifting, and relieves inner tension, such as a knotted stomach

11 months

Tiger’s Eye

Striking brown with glimmering lighter bands

Attracts wealth and money, also for protection

10 months

Unakite

Moss green and salmon coloring

To encourage positive thinking/self-confidence

9 months

Carnelian

Translucent, varies from white to brownish red

Diverts anger, rage, jealousy into the ground

8 months

Red Coral

Red, resembling cross section of tree branch

Healing and fertility

7 months

Bloodstone

Dark green with red to brown spots

Healing, recovery

6 months

Turquoise

A robin egg blue stone, sometimes spidered with black streaks

Protection in volatile situations

5 months

Amethyst

Purplish, translucent crystal with milky interior

Peace, serenity, insomnia, concentration

4 months

Red Jasper

Dark, earthy red, with some dark streaks

For psychic protection, it returns negativity to its source

3 months

Sodalite

Deep blue with white streaks

To reduce stress, nervousness, and fear

2 months

Aventurine

Light green and translucent

Heightens spiritual vision and perception

1 month

Mottled Jasper

Mottled red with green specks

For protection against risky behavior

Desire Stone - for a desire to recover one day at a time

Hematite

Heavy stone, silver to black

For grounding and centering, and finding serenity

Remembrance stone - For remembering those who have passed, or have relapsed

Black Onyx

Black and glassy

Banishes harmful grief and bad habits



VII. Introductions and requested topic

Let’s go around the room and introduce ourselves.

Does anyone have a topic they would like to discuss?

Suggestions:
step study - honesty - just for today - gratitude - group unity - amends - outer/inner Divine Power - principles before personalities - acceptance - tolerance - forgiveness - surrender - spiritual awakening - depression - psychotropic medication - powerlessness - HALT - loneliness - control - resentment - anonymity - Green Man Code - serenity - obsessive compulsion - power over people, places or things - connection through ritual and magick - spiritual axiom - grounding - meditation


VIII. Closing and thanking the Deities for their attendance

Does anyone have a burning desire to share? If not, please join me in quiet contemplation as I thank our Deities, Spirits and Elementals for their attendance.

Assistant snuffs each candle in reverse order, as called.

Spirits of the North, East, South, and West,
We thank you for your attendance and aid.
May you depart in peace, taking with you our love and our gratitude,
harming none along the way, until the time we call for you again.

We bid you hail and farewell.
(All repeat: Hail and farewell.)

We thank you Lord and Lady,
For your love and wisdom as
Spoken through our members this meeting.

We bid you hail and farewell.
(All repeat: Hail and farewell.)

We close this meeting with thanks,
Knowing that our bond with our Inner Divine Power has been strengthened.

Deity, we thank you for accepting our spirit,
And for sharing your wisdom and guidance for our daily living.


We have shared in this meeting in Perfect Love and Perfect Trust. Who you have seen, and what has been spoken in our closed meetings is completely confidential. Let our words, thoughts, and sharing be a fond and helpful memory of this gathering. Take with you the healing energy, and the love of family, that has been so freely given. Remember to care and watch out for each other long after these candles have gone out. Keep the Green Man Code close to your hearts as we rejoin the mundane world.


For those who would care to, let’s close with the Pagan Sanctum Serenity Prayer:PSR Serenity Prayer

Deity,
Grant me the serenity
To accept the things I cannot change
Courage to change the things I can,
Wisdom to know the difference,
And the power to live in the moment.

Merry Meet, Merry Part,
And Merry Meet again!
Keep coming back,
It works if you work it!


 

 


The Correspondences

The Directions, Colors and Elements: What do they have to do with recovery?

Calling the quarters is an ancient ritual common to many pre-Christian religious practices, and we have presented here a generic version that should fit seamlessly with most traditions. The purpose is to invite the various elementals (a spirit that favors one of the four elements, and its related color), and to incorporate their specialized strengths into the safety zone we are creating.

The Four Elements, Earth, Air, Fire, Water, are universal. Nearly all pagan traditions recognize and use them extensively in their practice, with little difference in their innate meaning and powers. But the corresponding colors and directions vary from tradition to tradition, so try not to get hung up on differences in what you may already use/know in your own practice. Adaptation is one of the greatest strengths of pagans (or we would have died out long ago).

North
Color:Green
Element: Earth

The color Green is associated with physical wealth and success, and the element Earth refers directly to our physical bodies, so it is natural that the two come together to form the attributes for the Northern direction. Focus on this color, element and direction when there is a need for prosperity (while bearing in mind that "wealth" can come in the form of something other than money and material gain.)

East
Color: Yellow
Element: Air

This is the correspondence of wisdom, knowledge, peace and serenity. The sun and moon rise in the direction East, which represents rebirth and beginnings

South
Color: Red
Element: Fire


This correspondence is central to freedom and change, and directly relates to our Inner and Outer Divine Spirit, and the ethereal life force that binds all things together.

West
Color: Blue
Element: Water

Blue is the color of all healing, spiritual, mental, and physical, so it is especially important in recovery. While grounding, focus on the concept that we are physically composed of mostly water; this will make the connection between you and the Earth easier to establish and maintain, and allow you to divert excess or unwanted energy/feelings to where it can be safely neutralized.


You will note that this is not a full circle ritual, in which a circle is drawn (usually by an athame, or ceremonial knife) blessed with incense and water, the idea being that you are creating a world beyond worlds, a time beyond time; strict enforcement of the demarcation is important in such rituals, and one can enter or leave only by doing specific things. As this is a recovery meeting, with recoverees coming and going, this would needlessly complicate things, so this portion has been omitted.

It is important to thank the visiting spirits and deities for their attendance; they appreciate knowing they are appreciated. It is equally important to let them all know when your ritual/meeting is over, to avoid the problem of having your spiritual guests remain after the meeting has ended, and possibly make mischief for others in the same space. As part of a well-rounded program of recovery, recoverees should pick up after themselves after a meeting: coffee cups, books, ashtrays, and spirits summoned from beyond.

 


Recommended Reading List


Alcoholics Anonymous
(A.A. World Services, Inc.)
The Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
(A.A. World Services, Inc.)
Daily Reflections
(A.A. World Services, Inc.)
Living Sober
(A.A. World Services, Inc.)
As Bill Sees It
(A.A. World Services, Inc.)
The Al-Anon Family Groups
(Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.)
Al-Anon's Twelve Steps & Twelve Traditions
(Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.)
One Day at a Time in Al-Anon
(Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.)
Alateen - Hope for Children of Alcoholics
(Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc.)
Narcotics Anonymous
(Narcotics Anonymous World Services, Inc.)
It Works How and Why
(Narcotics Anonymous World Services, Inc.)
Just For Today
(Narcotics Anonymous World Services, Inc.)
The Twelve Steps and Dual Disorders
(Hamilton & Samples)
The Dual Disorders Recovery Book
(Dual Recovery Anonymous World Services, Inc.)
Codependent No More
(Melody Beattie)
Hope, Faith & Courage
(Cocaine Anonymous World Services, Inc.)
Caffeine Blues
(Stephen Cherniske, M.S.)
Adrenal Fatigue
(James L. Wilson, N.D., D.C., Ph.D)
Listen To the Drum
(Blackwolf Jones, M.S., C.A.S., & Gina Jones)
The Recovery Spiral
(Cynthia Jane Collins, M.Div.)
Drawing Down the Moon
(Margot Adler)
Spiral Dance
(Starhawk)
Pagans & Christians
(Gus diZerega, Ph.D)
Paganism: An Introduction to Earth Centered Religions
(Higgenbotham)
When God Was a Woman
(Merlin Stone)
The Chalice and the Blade
(Riane Eisler)
The Jesus Mysteries
(Freke & Gandy)
Pagans and the Law: Understand Your Rights
(Dana E. Eilers)
The Practical Pagan
(Dana E. Eilers)
The Complete Book of Incense, Oils and Washes
(Scott Cunningham)
Crystal, Gem & Metal Magic
(Scott Cunningham)
The Power of Now
(Eckhart Tolle)
Practicing the Power of Now
(Eckhart Tolle)
Stillness Speaks
(Eckhart Tolle)
Awakening to the Sacred
(Lama Surya Das)
The Four Agreements
(Don Miguel Ruiz)

 

Evaluation on an Individual Basis (EIB)

For the benefit of all, please remember that we are all entitled to our chosen path, and we should respect other faiths even if we don’t agree with or identify with them. Do not evaluate the individual on what one may have "heard about" their religious practices. These notions often prove to be wrong, as many of us on the other side of the fence have discovered. Instead, examine the deeds and words of the individuals themselves, not the rumors and gossip that can burn through the pagan community like wildfire. We ask this to help prevent the same prejudice all of us have experienced at one time or another.


The Long-Reach Stapler

We have found that the Suggested Meeting Format and other materials are easier to handle in booklet form (5.5 by 8.5 inches). A long-reach stapler is necessary to bind the pages, and can be found at any office supply for less than $15.

 

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